Hi I'm Sue and if your labs are “normal” but you feel awful, you’re not alone.
I built MyUnMess for the women who feel dismissed, confused, and exhausted—especially in perimenopause. I’ve been there: scared, foggy, and told it was “nothing.” This space exists so you can get real support, real clarity, and science-backed tools like HeadStrong to help you feel like yourself again.
This wasn’t a pivot. It was a rescue mission.
I was used to being the most capable person in the room. I was the one with the answers, the stamina, and the iron-clad memory. Then, the fog rolled in.
Suddenly, the woman who managed budgets and impossible schedules was struggling with everything, from finding the right words in a meeting to deciding what to make for dinner. I spent years ignoring the symptoms because "high-functioning" women like us don't have bad days. I pushed through the brain fog and the bone-deep fatigue until I didn’t recognize the woman in the mirror.
Who was I if I wasn't "on"?
I went to doctor after doctor, searching for the "glitch" in my system. But the medical world kept telling me my "specs" were normal. Every time I was told I was "just stressed," yet another piece of my confidence broke. I wasn't just tired; I was disappearing and fast.
I didn’t build MyUnMess because I wanted a startup. I built it because I refused to let perimenopause be the ceiling of my career.
This is the resource I needed when I was sitting in my car, shaking before a presentation. It is a place for real clarity, high-level support, and the hard truth about regaining your edge.
Our Mission and Vision
Mission: To help women come back to themselves when they feel like they are slipping away. MyUnMess exists to guide women through the fog and frustration of perimenopause with clarity, compassion, and real support. We help you reclaim your energy, your identity, and your spark so you can finally breathe again.
Vision: A world where no woman is dismissed or minimized when her body begins to change. A world where women are offered real answers and real tools instead of silence and confusion. We want every woman to feel seen, supported, and strong as she moves through this chapter. You deserve your spark, and we are here to help you light it again.
Peri is hard, even harder alone...
I created MyUnMess because I know what it’s like to feel lost in your own body—when your mind feels foggy, your energy disappears, and the medical system tells you you’re “fine.” You deserve better answers, better support, and tools that actually help you feel like yourself again.
Here’s what we focus on:
• Clarity & Brain Fog Support
Support for the “why can’t I think?” days—so you can feel sharper, steadier, and more present.
• Jitter-Free Energy
For when coffee starts to backfire. Calm, steady support without the wired feeling or crash.
• Stress & Resilience
Because perimenopause doesn’t just affect your body—it affects your capacity. We support steadier days.
• Support That Feels Human
You’re not broken. You’re not alone. MyUnMess is built to help you feel seen, supported, and strong again.
And I am here to help you get there.